Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Wish to happiness!!!

Almost everyone wishes for happiness. But there are quite a few who walk through the path that leads to happiness. Happiness is always relative and is never absolute, and that is why many poorer are happier than richer; many handicapped are happier than healthier; many so called unsuccessful are happier than so called successful.

As per my analysis and experience, the path to happiness starts from wish!... yes, just a "Wish". When a wish is properly planned, it becomes a "Goal". When a goal is attained, it becomes "Achievement". When an achievement gets enough recognition/publishment, it becomes "Success". And when a success is shared with family, friends and others then only it becomes "Happiness".

Below is the formula that depicts the milestones of happiness in bold.

Wish + Plan => Goal + Attainment => Achievement + Recognition => Success + Sharing => Happiness.

The orange parts are the ones where one utilizes the intelligence, knowledge, connections and all possible resources.

I hope my analysis would help few strugglers who are pursuing Happiness.
Please feel free to put upon your comments on this. Your sincere comments are highly valued and appreciated.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Help or Interfere!

There is a very thin line between help and interfere that usually is unrealized and causes big damages in relationship. Both helping and interfering can be intended for good (or maybe for bad too....) but yet both can yield very opposite impact on faith and confidence in a relationship.

Helping is making options available and letting the person in need to choose from those options. Interfering is choosing option for the person in need and then applying that option for her / him.

There is a lot to write on this but at this point I'm stopping and will continue appending on this soon.